Penis Damage after Intensive Sex
Q. I’m 18, and I’ve been having a problem for about two months. For two weeks of vacation, I spent almost eight or nine hours a day having sex with…
How Big Is Your Sexual Ornament?
According to Geoffrey Miller, author of The Mating Mind, in evolutionary terms, the mind “… makes most sense as an entertainment system designed to stimulate other brains …” (p. 155)…
Pumping Iron Makes You Live Longer
I once asked a gym manager what brought his customers through the door. His answer, “sex”, surprised me. I had expected a more conservative response, like “to lose weight”, “train…
Female Sexual Predators
This is the second of two posts looking at the dark underbelly of female psychology. In the last post I looked at abusive women, particularly those with Axis II personality…
Sex Addiction
As a men’s psychotherapist, I have talked more often to the media about sexual addiction than any other topic. This is strange really because the assumption is that it is…
Social Anxiety Often Co-morbid With Premature Ejaculation
Premature ejaculation is a difficult subject for many men, and there are many approaches to helping sufferers. Medical solutions include prescribing antidepressant drugs with a known side effect of retarding…
Women Go for Smart and Generous Guys
Ever wondered what women go for in a man? Well research by Mark Prokosch and his team and reported in the Journal Evolution and Behaviour suggests that women tend to…
Why Do Men Engage In Risky Sex?
In this post I want to make a few remarks about men who engage in risky sex. These won’t be evidence based remarks, more a speculative discussion based on my…